Take me straight to the Contents
First Published
November 1994
by
'Living Beyond'
South Australia
ISBN 0 646 21271 0
Set No 0 646 21270 2
Thank you
Christine Brovcenko
--for being the pathfinder
Mark Jones and Lazaris
--for love and inspiration
Dora Rigano
--who uses my techniques and who
suggested that I write this book
and
Malcolm Day
--who edited, printed and distributed
the first edition in 1994
INTRODUCTION
This is a book of psychic first aid. It allows you to handle
a crisis yourself whilst waiting for professional healing or assistance.
It is a collection of successful techniques that I have used for
myself, and for others who needed immediate help. I have found
them useful as first aid outside of formal counseling sessions:
in social situations and even over the phone.
This book is not intended to take the place of physical first
aid in handling bodily injury. However, it can greatly improve
the effectiveness of physical techniques.
Muriel Chen
Adelaide
1994
THE PHILOSOPHY BEHIND THIS BOOK
The author has been an active student and practitioner in the
field of metaphysics and spiritual improvement for over thirty
years. She has developed certain attitudes and beliefs through
this time that empower her current practice.
We create or allow our reality. We create or allow all
of it--the major events, crises and successes of life, all their
consequences, even the tiniest details of daily existence.
We do this through our conscious, subconscious and unconscious
beliefs, thoughts and feelings, attitudes, choices and decisions.
What we desire, imagine and expect manifests this consciousness.
Learning to consciously choose and manifest, and thus creating
all our reality knowingly, is one of the most essential
purposes of human life.
Throughout life we are programmed with beliefs which limit our
ability to create the realities which we would choose. These beliefs
persist until they are recognized and changed to bring about the
experiences which we desire.
The ability to assist others to find and change unwanted limiting
beliefs is one of the professional skills of the practitioners
listed at the back of the book.
The ability to freely feel and experience the emotions which are
part of living, is a necessary part of the healing process.
Many of the following first aid suggestions stress strongly feeling
the emotions, negative and positive. Many of the exercises are
designed to allow the flow of emotions which are appropriate for
healing and growth.
Malcolm Day
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
A wide range of situations for which you may remedy with psychic
first aid are in listed below in alphabetical order.
If your exact problem is not listed, look for one that is similar.
The handling steps for each listed situation can be used for other
situations that are similar.
At the end you will find a general process for handling any unwanted,
limiting belief. As these unwanted beliefs are exactly the locks
and bars that keep us in spirutual bondage, beings who have extensively
and determinedly used this process, either solo, or assisted by
a trusted associate, have attained remarkable states of spiritual
clarity.
You can always write to me to share your successes with these
processes. If there are situations that are not mentioned and
you would like them to be part of the next edition tell me. If
you would like to write another book in the series contact me.
If you with to obtain professional help using belief changing
techniques, contact Muriel Chen, c/o Steve
Solomon or write by snailmail at PO Box 524, Exeter, TASMANIA
7275 Australia.
CONTENTS
ABANDONMENT
AFRAID
ALIENATION
ANGER
BLAME
BRUISES, BUMPS, BURNS, SPRAINS AND ABRASIONS
CRYING
CONFLICTS
CRITICAL
DEPRESSION
DISAPPOINTMENTS
DYING AND DEATH
DEATH, SUDDEN
FEAR OF A COMING EXPERIENCE
FEELING DISORIENTED
FEELINGS WHICH ARE SUPRESSED
FORGIVING
GRIEF
GUILT
HEADACHE
HURRIED
HURT ANOTHER
HURT EMOTIONALLY
JEALOUSY
LONELINESS
LOSS (sudden loss)
LOVE (too much)
NOT GOOD ENOUGH
PROBLEM
PROBLEM (with no solution)
PSYCHIC ATTACK
REGRETTED ACTIONS
REVENGE
SELF PITY
SHAME
SICK (loved one)
STATE OF THE WORLD
The 33 second technique
SUCCESS STORIES
SUICIDAL
TIME (not enough of it)
TROUBLE (in trouble)
UNSURE
UNHAPPY
UNWANTED EMOTION
UPSET (with another person)
SECTION TWO: BELIEF CHANGING TECHNIQUES
FINDING BELIEFS TO CHANGE
BELIEF CHANGING TECHNIQUE
To use with another
The 33 second technique
To use Solo
PRACTITIONERS
ABANDONMENT
If I am a baby and I depend upon my mother, this dependency is
necessary for my survival.
When I am adult the very young depend upon me for survival.
People grow. They change. But you, the spiritual being, are outside
of time. You are always ALL that you are and all that you ever
were:
You are the infant, the child, the adolescent, the adult.
As an adult you may choose to relate to other adults. One of these
relationships is a partnership to create and care for the young.
Ideally, each adult is self-dependent.
But sometimes adults set up dependencies. If the dependency becomes
too FIXED one feels (as a child) that should ‘the parent'
leave, they would die.
People change at different rates and in different directions.
We are here to grow and to learn and that means change occurs.
Gradual change that is accepted by all those involved occurs without
being noticed. Sudden, or hidden, or unacceptable changes HURT.
When open communication has been absent for a long time one person
may solve the problem of their own changes by leaving.
Sudden change is similar to a sudden death.
The feelings that one gets after one has been left hurt. There
is the feeling of being lost and the feeling of being less than.
There could also be anger or blame. [If so go to those sections
now]
The child within you feels the results of being left as death.
It initially fights it and then grieves.
The adult feels that life has ‘holes' left in it.
They have got used to many things that have become part of the
ritual of existence such as setting 2 places on the table. Now
only one is needed.
They turn to ask an opinion and there is no one there. Someone
who they expect to be there has gone.
You may have been dependent on this person.
You as an adult may be suffering from holes that need filling.
[There are many other contributing factors which need to be healed
but here we are doing FIRST aid.]
As a dependent child you fear you are going to die!
As an adult you can care for yourself but need to fill the holes
that are left.
You may not realize it now but there are millions of other beings
to relate to.
One person whom you felt dependent upon has changed position
in space and time. [It may even be that they went to another
dimension as in death]
They still ARE!
A communication line is broken.
What to do about the feelings.
The hurt can be intense.
Allow yourself to feel whatever feelings are there. [Use
the section on unwanted emotions.]
The adult YOU realizes what the situation really is.
The adult in you can, in quiet moments or in meditation, reach
to the you that is the child and talk to that child.
Ask the child to tell you what is happening and how it feels.
LISTEN, UNDERSTAND then ACKNOWLEDGE.
When the child has told it all, give comfort and reassurance that
the adult that you are is here. That you will always be there
for that child. Do this as often as the child needs it.
The adult ‘you' feels the emptiness of the holes left in
life. It is easy to just believe your pain was caused by the other's
leaving but this irresponsibility prolongs the grieving.
It is easier to see that the holes are there to be filled and
complete your grieving in order to set about filling the holes.
Steps:
Write down all the things that you will miss through this loss.
Write all the things you loved in the other.
Write all the things you resisted or disliked about the other.
>From your viewpoint
Write down all that you feel that you did not do or say and
wished you had.
Write all that you did or said that you regret.
>From the other persons viewpoint
Write down all that you consider that they feel that you did
not do or say
Write all that you feel that they did that they may regret.
It is your own actions and your own thoughts that can cause your
hurt.
Forgive yourself if forgiveness is needed (do this as the
adult).Forgiveness means to let go of the past.
Look back in time and find all the little signs that might
have shown you that the change which appeared so sudden was, in
fact, coming.
Find how and when you resisted changes or lack of changes in the
other.
Accept all this.
Accept the change.
Whatever the other is doing now it is by their own choice and
it is they that can heal themselves. Death is a part of life and
so are all changes within life.
Create your new life.
You can find another to depend upon or you can realize that you
can create more stable relationships without dependency.
Search for those in need. Empower them, using your wisdom and
knowledge, in order that they may help themselves. Give them your
tenderness and understanding and support without any need to have
anything in return. Isn't that what you would like for yourself?
Whilst you give to others you will feel what it is that you are
giving.
AFRAID
someone may know about something you have done that you don't
want found out.
The worry about whether someone will find out something that you
believe will discredit you in some way is very damaging to you.
It is much less damaging if you know that your secret is known,
or know that it isn't known.
It is important that this worrying doubt be resolved in some way,
in any way, as keeping it with you causes you to subtly destroy
all your relationships. It will cause you to be critical of others,
and to create distance between yourself and others in an irrational,
automatic attempt to hide whatever it is that you feel cannot
be revealed.
The simplest way, (but perhaps not the easiest to find the courage
for), is to be honest and apologize sincerely if it is something
you are sorry for. Whatever unpleasantness that might arise from
this revelation is now outside you, and can almost certainly be
resolved relatively easily and objectively.
Failing this direct approach, you could find out for sure whether
they know or not. It is the uncertainty that is most damaging,
so removing that is a valuable "first aid".
Even if you are worried that should someone find out about you
it would hurt the other, your concern may still be a worry about
your being discredited. You are worried lest they know it was
you who "did it" and caused the hurt. Handle this as
above. You will need to find a little courage!
If it is not possible to do the above find someone whom you trust
and tell them EVERYTHING.
It will help to use the "Critical" handling steps.
ALIENATION
Some people feel very much a part of their families and the society
in which they live whilst others feel completely out of place.
They feel that they must have been adopted or that they must have
come from somewhere else even from another planet or another universe.
They may be right.
You have your own unique universe. You are here to have fun finding
how other's have constructed their own universes. Each of those
universe's is different from all others--unique!
At some time in your life you will find people who feel to you
like your true family. They are your spiritual family. They reflect
you as you wish to be.
You choose the family you come into whether the family involved
is your biological family or not. You made this choice in order
to experience what you are experiencing. You 'come from' your
own universe.
Look at what you are experiencing.
See what there is in the experience to help you learn about your
own qualities and about the uniqueness of you.
All the good things you can see in other people are reflections
of your own good qualities.
However, you also see the things in others that are not right.
These reflect hidden parts of your universe that you prefer not
to have.
You choose to reflect what you admire in order to see your chosen
qualities and you choose to reflect what you find unacceptable
in order to resolve these things in your self
Look to see if you are judging yourself as right and others
as wrong.
This judgment is what makes you feel alien to other people. This
judgment is also what makes them feel alien to you.
Steps:
1. List all the judgments that you are making of a person you
feel alien to.
Take the first judgment.
2. Find times when you have been or done whatever it is that
you are judging the other person for being or doing.
3. Take full responsibility for what you caused at each of those
times, and feel the feelings that you may have caused.
Now,
4. Let those feelings go--just let them go--the same way
you would let a piece of paper you were holding on to go. This
will allow you to forgive yourself.
5. Decide to change.
6. Repeat this for each judgment on your list--and you will
feel closer to that person.
When all alienation caused through judgment is released you will
find it easier to decide exactly who you are.
ANGER
-which you feel
-which you receive from another
Anger is a natural, even a positive emotion for a human to feel.
Feeling the emotion of anger stimulates a person to action,
and that action is to survive by either fighting or fleeing. If
you cannot fight or flee, you need to find another method of expressing
this anger.
It is important that the expression is appropriate, and
many people have not yet learned the appropriate expression of
anger. Anger expressed in an appropriate fashion does no harm--it
may even strengthen a relationship--which is why it may be called
"positive".
Anger that is not expressed is said to be suppressed or
repressed. Unexpressed anger may have various unwanted
results. The chemistry of suppressed or repressed anger can lodge
in the body and cause disease, or the energy of anger can build
up and up and up until something triggers it. We all have witnessed
someone exploding into rage over next to nothing.
Suppression and repression of anger causes all of our problems
with anger.
If you are feeling fear in the presence of such outbursts from
someone, know that you have attracted that person by means of
your own repressed anger. You may have no idea that it is there.
If you are with someone who has outbursts of anger it is almost
certain that you do have suppressed and repressed anger
Repressed anger in yourself attracts repressed anger in others.
Steps:
1. Find a time when you felt that kind of fear. There will
be some anger of your own under that fear which you did not express
at that time.
2. Allow yourself to become aware of the anger that is under
the fear. Do not think and reason it out--just let
it come to you. Know that it is all right for you to feel angry.
When the feeling which is anger is there with you,
3. Feel it as intensely as you can. Let the feelings build
up more and more. Really build the intensity--consciously.
When the energy has come to a peak. . .
4. Pour the feelings into an imaginary container. Pour all
that energy into the container. There may be words associated
with the feeling. Let them flow with the feelings into the container.
If you fill one container, then fill another, and another. . .
. .
4a. Make sure all the anger is gone from you. If some remains,
intensify it until you can let it go and then put it in a container.
Next,
5. Imagine that you are the you who is much more than your
body and magically turn all the contents of the containers into
bright, sparkling white light. Pour all that sparkling white light
into yourself--through the top of your head filling your body.
Do not hurry. Take as long as you like. Enjoy the process, and
enjoy the light.
BLAME
If you receive information about yourself which you do not want
you tend to make it unconscious to get rid of it. When it is activated
in any way at another time it can appear to belong to someone
else. You see the something that you do not want but it appears
outside your self. It appears in another person. This is what
causes you to blame others. Blame is saying "I do not want
this to be!"
If someone is blaming you, realize that no matter what you
have done or not done the blame is coming from the hidden
consciousness of the person who is doing the blaming.
Steps:
If you are blaming others,
1. Write down all the things you are blaming them for.
2. Realize that the other person is reflecting your hidden consciousness
to you just as a mirror reflects your physical image.
What you are blaming them for is the part of you that you do not
want. You have attempted to get rid of it by hiding it. This is
why you are seeing it in others. If this were not so, you would
not be finding anything in the other to blame them for.
This realization will give you an understanding of why you blame
and why other people blame you.
The hidden judgments can be removed.
A belief changing process to do so will be found at the end of
this book. You can use it on yourself or have another do it for
you or consult a trained practitioner.
BRUISES, BUMPS,
BURNS,
SPRAINS AND ABRASIONS
Take conscious control of the situation or help the other take
conscious control of the situation if it is their injury that
you are helping with
Do this first
1. Put the body in exactly the same position as it was
when it was hurt--e.g. if you bumped your leg on a piece of
furniture, put the spot on your leg that was hurt back in touch
with the spot on the furniture, but gently this time! (Turn off
and cool down any stove, radiator, power tool etc. that was instrumental
in causing the injury).
2. Take it away.
3. Repeat 1. and 2. many times (the pain may get a little worse
before getting much less)
The reduction of pain from this procedure is due to the following
facts. We tend to withdraw our attention from an area of pain,
which leaves the pain "stored away", prolonging it and
causing future problems.
Additional relief
1. Touch with the finger, various spots around the wounded area,
allowing each "touch" to be felt. (If you are doing
this for someone else get them to close their eyes and to let
you know when they feel your finger each time.)
2. Treat each side of the body. So if the left leg is injured,
touch a spot on the right leg (and make sure it has been felt),
and then touch the same spot on the left leg. Right leg, left
leg, right leg, left leg, on so on, each time a different spot
around the injury.
3. Gradually get closer to the injured area until you are touching
it. If the skin is broken, or stitches are required, get the
medical work done, or cover with a dressing as appropriate before
touching the wound itself.
4. Continue touching around the area, to and from the area,
until there is a marked improvement for the person.
If the person is still obviously emotionally distressed, see "UNWANTED
EMOTION"
CRYING
(can't stop)
Don't try to stop.
1. Increase the intensity of the feeling that seems to be with
you in your grief. Intensify it to the maximum.
2. Fill containers with it. See how many containers you can fill
with it!
As you proceed,
3. Check what other feelings might be present with the grief:
unexpressed anger, perhaps, or self pity or sympathy. These
may relate to yourself, or to another.
4. Intensify these feelings, and fill more containers. You
won't run out of containers! There are as many imaginary containers
as you need. Use your will to make sure you do
intensify each set of feelings, and to make sure you put them
all in the containers.
When you have completed this,
5. Have your higher self, or Someone more than you, transform
it all into sparkling white light, and slowly pour that sparkling
white light into you.
If you find that you are crying because of something you consider
sad about someone else, fill them with white light until
they are positively glowing, and do the same for yourself.
This remedy will work unless you leave some of the unwanted feelings
not intensified, and not put into the containers.
It will work best if you are not still experiencing self-pity,
or are not trying to show others how they have wronged you.
CONFLICTS
Conflict occurs when more than one person is determined to be
the only one who is right AND is determined to believe that the
other or others is or are wrong.
Right and wrong can be different for each and every individual.
In relation to some activities it has been found that the desired
result can be obtained more easily, more quickly or otherwise
more effectively by doing and or thinking in a particular way.
Some call these particular ways "right" when actually,
the "right" way is usually the most effective way. For
example it is considered right to look both ways before crossing
the street. It is just that it is usually safer to do so.
When we agree for a long period of time that particular ways are
"right" we sometimes forget that they are only methods
which work that we have agreed upon.
All other ways can also be right.
Conflict is usually produced when someone asserts that there is
only one way that is right.
Conflict can be resolved by
1. Agreeing to accept that there is a difference in viewpoint
of what is right.
Or it can resolved by
2. One or more people willingly changing their opinion and
agreeing to accept another's rightness as their own.
It cannot ever be resolved by force, effort to force, or unwilling
change of viewpoint or opinion.
CRITICAL
This section is to use if you find yourself being critical. (By
"critical," I do not mean assessing something in order
to choose, I mean find things wrong with another person or other
persons.)
If you find yourself being critical then the first thing to realize
is, that whether or not the things you find wrong with the other
person are there, or did actually happen, or not, the sense of
wrongness comes from you. You are judging.
When you think the critical thought or say the critical message
to another you are defending yourself.
You are defending yourself because you have done something that
the other might consider is wrong and you are not sure whether
or not that person has found out.
It can be an unpleasant feeling of righteous anger or the impulse
to beat someone to a pulp or the impulse to make the other person
less by finding fault with them.
Making them less seems to make what you did feel less important
and so less wrong.
Steps:
To help reduce this feeling and the effects on you of these actions
sit down with paper and pencil and
1. Write all the things that you have DONE to that person that
they might consider are wrong.
2 . Write all that you have done to that person that you feel
you must hide.
3. Write all that you have done that you or anyone else could
consider is wrong. EVERYTHING!
DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT IT IS. WRITE IT DOWN. NO ONE IS WATCHING
Now ask yourself
4. When, and What did someone say or do (or didn't say or do)
that made you wonder whether or not they knew what you had done?
Relax and be willing to know and the answer will come to you.
Write it down.
5. Did anyone else say or do anything that made you wonder
whether or not they knew?
6. Find all those people that you feel may have nearly found out.
Find out what was said or done that made you wonder if they knew
or not. Write it all down.
When you have done this and still feel a little unhappy about
the person realize that a similar thing may have happened before
so stay with the idea of having done things you would rather hide
and that are not definitely found out and find an earlier similar
time.
Handle this time in the same way as the first.
Keep finding earlier times and handling them until you feel much
better and have no desire to be critical of the person or persons
in question.
Realize that the very same reactions are at work when someone
else is being critical of you!
DEPRESSION
There is a form of depression that you will need professional
help with. If you have it you will not be looking in this book
to help yourself.
The most common causes of depression are long-term, suppressed
anger or suppressed hurt. Although these are the cause of eighty
percent of depression, the anger or hurt will long ago have been
lost to the sight of the sufferer.
Anger is a basic and natural human emotion, which can be healthily
expressed through a simple process. (See ANGER ). If expressed
inappropriately, it can obviously have harmful effects on relationships.
If suppressed, it can seriously affect the body and it depress
you.
When you feel depressed,
1. Find the earliest time that you can remember feeling that
way.
2. Feel the depression as though you were there at that time,
at the age you were then.
3. Ask who it is that you are angry with, (or by what or whom
you were hurt.) The answer may be yourself.
If it is anger,
4. Feel the anger. Feel it more. Feel it as intensely as you
can, and let it flow.
5. Flow it into containers, turn it into white sparkling light
and pour it into you.
6. Allow yourself to fully feel any hurt that arises. Really let
it be there, let it build up and up until it is all there
with you, intensely.
7. Flow it into containers, and treat as for anger above.
If you cannot find anger or hurt, ask yourself whether there was
an earlier time that you felt that same depression. Don't try
to remember a time. Ask if it is there, and then wait patiently
to see if it comes to you. It will if you just let it. Then proceed
as above.
Some depressions can reached a stage where professional assistance
is required.
DYING AND DEATH
Consciousness exists, whether it is focused through a physical
body or not. Death is a cessation of physical experience. This
may occur after a long, or a short life.
The transition from life to death, as we normally describe those
states, can be just as exciting and pleasurable as any other planned
change through our conscious existence. There can be more pain
and suffering in birth and in life than there is in death.
The expectations of a being (person) determine what that
being experiences at death, as in life! If a certain being expects
to go to heaven after dying, that is what they will experience.
If a being expects to be reborn, they will experience that
reality.
Persons also are influenced by the emotions and expectations of
others. Subconscious expectations which oppose what they prefer,
or doubts about what they prefer can make the transition through
death very difficult. Someone not wanting them to go, or grieving
about the loss may also make it difficult.
It is most valuable and helpful to a being who is dying to allow
them to go when they want to go, and to encourage them
in their expectations and desires for the life beyond transition.
Above all, they should be assured that they will not be causing
difficulties for others by going, so that they don't feel that
it is wrong to go. Love and reassurance make the passage easier.
Because death is the cessation of physical feeling, the withdrawal
of the consciousness which is focused through a body, it is not
difficult for a caring person nearby to feel when that withdrawal
occurs.
DEATH, SUDDEN
Sudden death of a person leaves and unexpected hole in the lives
of others.
Aspects of life that are planned and expected that involve the
other appear broken. Behaviours, once normal and routine, now
seem out of place. (I still put the scraps down for the dog sometimes
and it is years since she died) Communication begins and you realize
they are not there to receive it.
They are no longer physically here but sometimes you can become
aware of them and some people feel they are still in communication
with the person who has gone from the physical realm.
They are in another level of experience and it is perhaps very
peaceful and beautiful. You are still here with an absence of
things that regularly took place.
Feel the absence. It is there. But also decide that you are going
to create other things in your life.
Soon you will begin to do so and the hole will be gone and only
the pleasant memories remain.
DISAPPOINTMENTS
That which we imagine, desire and expect without reservation usually
occurs.
In relationships, however, it very often happens that one person
expects the other to be in a certain way, or to do certain
things. Consciously or otherwise, they expect this in order for
the other to make them happy. Such an apparently desirable and
selfless utterance as "I love you" can often be understood
to carry the meaning "therefore I am giving you the responsibility
of being and doing what keeps me happy."
This can cause disappointments and suppressed or repressed anger.
The other person has their own desires, and imagines and expects
these to occur to suit them. This may produce a quite different
result from that expected by the first person. It mostly does!
That is why we communicate.
We communicate to find the differences in others that make life
richer and more interesting. We communicate to share our unique
differences respecting and cherishing them as they are. We communicate
to find out whether we are wanting sufficiently similar realities
to include each other in a shared life.
You can expect that 'someone' be part of a future that you imagine,
desire and expect, but you may be disappointed if you choose a
person and then expect that particular person to be and do what
you imagine and want them to be and do.
To desire someone to come into your life and then get to know
and accept them as they are is much more exciting.
So if you find that some person in your life is not meeting your
expectations maybe it is the expectations that need to be changed.
When you say "I love you" love that person just as they
are. Just as they are being, doing and having.
FEAR OF A COMING
EXPERIENCE
An example of such a fearful experience would be an operation.
Sit quietly, and
1. Look at your life situation right now as if it were a movie.
2. Stop the movie at the present moment.
Ask yourself
3. What am I afraid might happen?
Play a movie, having what you fear actually happen.
See it in as much detail as you can.
Feel it as much as you can.
Play it until whatever you fear is completed.
4. Leave the movie, and go back to the point, where you stopped
it the movie of your life.
Now
5. Play another movie in which something worse happens.
6. Play a third movie in which something even worse than that
happens.
And
7. Play a fourth in which the worst possible things that could
ever happen occur.
8. Play the movie that contained your fear, again.
Now
9. Play a movie about a future that you wouldn't mind occurring.
Then
10. Play one with something that you'd very much like to have
happen.
These movies are the possible futures which you could have.
11. Choose a future from the movies that you have created.
If you think about another future you'd rather have while you
are following this process, just play it through like the above
movies before making your choice.
12. Go back to where you stopped the movie of your life,
and
13. Start it again, joining it to the future movie you have
chosen.
14. Step back from your imagination into reality.
If there is still fear, it is from a different cause. Locate this
one, and handle it in the same way.
FEELING DISORIENTED
Hold a tree. Feel its texture. Look at its colours. Listen to
its sound. Smell it. Let go of the tree.
Repeat all the above. Feel the tree with different parts of your
body. Imagine you are the tree, and feel your solidity. Feel your
roots going into the earth and your branches reaching to the sky.
Feel the sap running in your cells, the wind in your leaves and
the birds in your branches.
Feel your own body, and imagine the tree feeling you.
Hold the tree.
FEELINGS
which are suppressed
Sometimes these are hard to identify--you think you feel.
Sometimes not feeling is sensed as an awareness of lack or of
hollowness. There are a lot of suppressed feelings around!
To begin to contact these, start from your earliest childhood
memories.
1. Write down a list of the feelings you remember that you
have had.
2. Write the feelings that you think you might have had if
you had allowed yourself to express them.
3. Be aware of times when you felt proud to have controlled your
feelings by not feeling them.
4. What did you do to suppress each feeling? How would it have
felt if you hadn't suppressed it?
5. Feel the feeling or imagine you can feel it.
(If you would rather not do this in writing, you could tell all
this to a trusted, empathic friend. Maybe you could both do it
for each other.)
6. Locate current feelings which you don't want to express
and write down without any critical thought or attention to grammar,
punctuation or spelling, exactly how you see it to be and how
you think about not expressing them.
7. Name all those feelings.
8. With each feeling that you know or suspect is being suppressed
ask the following questions replacing the feeling used as
an example with one you have named.
Q. How does it feel to be ..........(angry)?
A. ...................(Stupid.)
Q. How does it feel to be ..............(stupid)?
A. ..................(More angry.)
Q. How does it feel to be ...............(more angry)?
A. ................(Hurt.)
Q. How does it feel to be ..................(hurt)?
A. .......................... (Lonely).
. . . . and so on. Keep asking "How does it feel" until
you are actually feeling how it feels.
If there is difficulty ask "If this was another person, how
would I imagine they would feel?"
When you find you are feeling an emotion--Consciously create it
and feel it more.
Enjoy the experience of feeling.
FORGIVING
Most people forgive most others.
Many people who can forgive others cannot forgive themselves.
What is forgiveness?
It is accepting that something has happened that you would
have preferred did not happen or it is accepting that something
did not happen that you would have chosen to happen.
The time in which these happenings should have happened or should
not have happened is past. That time no longer exists.
Have you ever changed the past by continuing to want it to be
different? Has anyone? Has anyone changed the present or the future
by wanting to change the past?
When you say that you find it hard to forgive you maybe saying
that you did not approve and you are therefore going to make your
feeling of disapproval continue in present time.
It is only the feeling that you can keep in present time.
Maybe you want to punish someone or maybe you want revenge. This
is causing more unpleasant feelings for you to feel. You can have
them exist in the present and even into the future. It is a matter
of choice.
Steps
1. Hold a piece of paper in two fingers.
2. Now decide to let go. Did you?
3. Hold a feeling.
4. Feel that feeling as much as you can.
5. Decide to let it go. Now let it go. Did you?
If there is any of that feeling left keep repeating 3, 4 &
5 until you let it all go.
Forgiveness is letting the past be the past and creating the present
which you prefer, now. What you create in the present creates
your future.
If you now can forgive others but are still beating up on yourself
have a look at the idea of being fair. Would the person you admire
most forgive one person and not the other?
Your universe is being created by aspects of yourself . Accept
yourself. When you can truly accept yourself there will not be
the need to forgive.
GRIEF
Be willing to experience the grief. Do not fight it. Really feel
the grief. This natural human emotion will evolve into another
emotion when it is allowed to flow.
The flow will be inhibited if you feed the grief. This is often
done by feeling self-pity, and not recognizing that it is a different
feeling.
(If you find you are feeling sorry for yourself, decide whether
you actually want to do that. If so, set yourself a time limit
for self-pity e.g. 20 minutes, and when that time is up, choose
to feel otherwise.)
Steps
Once you have the grief flowing
1. Feel it consciously as intensely as you can.
2. Put it into imaginary containers
3. Turn it all into bright sparkling light and pour it into your
self
GUILT
Guilt is anger that you feel you have
no right to have. Guilt is of no benefit to anyone.
Steps:
Find the guilt.
1. Write down, in detail, the experience about which you feel
the guilt. Don't try to write in any particular way. Write
it as it is, as it was, and how you feel about it. Be honest.
As best you can, be the person you were at the time you felt the
guilt.
2. Find the anger under the guilt.
Ask,
3. "Who am I angry with?"
4. Feel the anger; really feel it.
5. Create all the anger that you did not feel at the time. Feel
it. You may, at first, feel anger as grief or frustration
or annoyance or any other feeling. If you do feel any other
feeling feel it and keep feeling it, consciously, until you can
feel the anger beneath it.
6. Feel the anger
7. Say all the things that go with those feelings especially
those things that you did not say at the time. Say it aloud if
you can.
8. Imagine any other person who was involved answering you
just as you would wish them to do so.
9. Forgive everyone involved.
You may find so much anger that you will need to handle it as
in "unwanted emotion".
HEADACHE
Headaches have a variety of causes. Some of them are physical,
as when you damage your neck or back alignment, or when your posture
ensures that nerves are constantly being pinched. There will even
be a some relief for these headaches from the following.
Steps:
1. Locate where you consider the pain is.
2. Feel it.
3. Describe how it feels.
4. Describe the actual size of the pain in, or on, the head.
5. Locate the centre of the pain.
6. Move the centre at least 1 cm in the direction that you feel
will be easiest.
7. Move it in another direction.
8. Continue doing this until you feel you can move it, little
by little, to the edge of, and then away from your head.
Another Method.
Steps:
1. Locate the pain as above
2. Perceive its colour. You may see, sense, feel, or just
know it. Some people can perceive its tone, as a sound, more easily.
If you prefer, identify it that way.
3. Make it lighter in colour (or higher in pitch).
4. Locate exactly where it is again, and make it even lighter.
5. Do this until it is white. When it becomes white, the headache
goes.
If you are perceiving it as sound,
5a. Continue until the pitch has risen beyond audibility--then
some more--until it is not sound, at all. The headache goes.
Some Variations
A.
1. Hold your hand on the surface (or above the surface--you choose)
of the head, near the pain. Imagine your hand as the source of
bright white light.
2. Imagine the white light being poured into your head by your
higher self.
B
Imagine a beam of bright, white light coming in to the top of
your head from an infinite source, and flood your head with it.
C
Decide to feel that pain as intensely as you can. Create it as
intensely as you can. Feel it as intensely as you can. When
you cease to resist the pain it can go.
HURRIED
Steps:
1. Stop. Stop everything you are doing. Stop thinking.
Ask yourself,
2. "What am I going to do, at the end of my lifetime,
with the minutes or hours that I save by hurrying?
3. Write what it is that you are saving all this time for. Don't
just read this and think the answer. Sit down and answer it fully.
Now
4. Decide and write down which things YOU feel are really important
for YOU to do
--during the next few minutes
--during today
--during tomorrow
--the next day
--next week
--at the end of life when you stop hurrying
--right now.
The only time at which YOU actually experience your life is right
NOW.
If you want to feel happy it must be right NOW. If you want to
look at happy memories you must look at them right NOW. If you
want a happy future you are creating it right NOW by what you
are being right NOW. (You can be a hurrier or a time saver if
you choose to be that.)
When you are hurried you are concerned with the amount of "doing"
you are doing, and you want to do it all right now. In twenty
years from now, what will you have achieved by trying to do it
all at once apart from feeling stressed and anxious about time?
Wouldn't you rather choose your feelings and experiences?
Wouldn't you rather HAVE time?
You are the only one who can create YOUR time.
NOW
HURT ANOTHER
Steps:
1. Are you sorry? If so, allow yourself to feel the sorrow. Do
not justify or excuse, just feel the sorrow.
2. Are you ashamed? Realize that the shame is a result of treatment
you have received, but under it is real sorrow. Feel it.
3. Are you blaming someone? Realize that what you are blaming
another for is something that is hidden within you.
You may indeed be genuinely sorry, with no clutter of the above
feelings. If so:
4. Allow yourself to feel it. The name for this emotion of
feeling genuinely sorry is "remorse". It is a worthy
emotion to feel.
After you have let yourself experience the remorse, if it is possible:
5. Talk to the person you have hurt, do that honestly,
without trying to make yourself either right or wrong. Tell
them what you have done, all of it, and that you are sorry.
If it is not possible,
5a. Talk to another person that you trust. Honestly say what
you did, and that you are sorry. Accept that you are forgiven.
Forgive yourself .
HURT EMOTIONALLY
Firstly, feel the pain. Write it out as fully as you can. Find
what you expected to happen that didn't, and/or what you didn't
expect to happen that did!
The feeling of hurt comes from a perceived separation from love.
It comes from expecting something which you felt was a need or
a want, and it was not given. It comes from expecting another
to be, or to feel, or to do in a certain
way toward you, and having them be different from your expectations.
It feels like a break in trust. It feels like a fracturing of
self esteem and self love. At root, it is a break or interruption
in your agreement about how things are, a break in communication,
or a break in the closeness that you felt with someone.
It is the suddenness or the unexpectedness that actually produces
the hurt. Realizing fully what the break was, that it was a fracturing
of agreement, of communication or of closeness with someone can
miraculously restore your clarity about your actual condition.
Steps
Ask:
1. Was it a break of agreement?
2. Was it a break of communication?
3. Was it a break of closeness or feeling of love with someone?
4. Was it a break in understanding?
5. Which ever you decide that it is reaffirm that that is what
it was.
Ask yourself whether there was an earlier time that you experienced
a similar hurt. If you find one, feel the pain of the experience,
write it down, and identify it as above. The resulting clarity
is greatest when you have found the earliest example of a particular
kind of break.
JEALOUSY
Jealousy hurts. Jealousy is the belief that there is not enough
to go around and that you are the one who is going to miss out.
It's seeds are planted in early childhood. It develops and grows
in atmospheres of competition and scarcity.
Feel what you are really feeling when you are jealous and you
will feel the feeling of competing for something that you consider
is scarce.
Sometimes it is the real or imagined scarcity of love or
attention that you are competing for.
Sometimes it is felt as the effort to fight others for what is
wanted. Sometimes one gives up and sulks. This proves once again
to you that there is not enough for you to have.
Actually the basis of all jealousies is love.
In many cases when one is jealous of another this other has things
that one wants. That which one wants most is love.
Realize that in reality there is an abundance of things and
that you are equally worthy of them and that all that stops you
is the belief that you can't have them.
You feel unloved.
In some cases you are jealous of someone's love and see that they
are the only person with all the beauty and wonder and goodness
etc. and that you desire them.
You may not believe what I am saying at first but everything
that you admire in that other is yours already. It is part of
you. It has become hidden from you and because you do not see
it in yourself you see it in the other. This includes the love
which you want.
Do you really love yourself enough to be able to love that other?
LONELINESS
Give freely to another or others of your time and in any other
way that you can.
Write a letter.
Give a smile.
Give understanding.
Give a flower.
Give with the thought of creating pleasure without a thought of
getting in return.
LOSS
sudden loss
Feels as though everything is gone? Feels like an enormous emptiness?
1. Tell a friend, or write down:
--everything you feel.
--all that is now lost to you.
--what you no longer have.
--the future that you no longer have because of this loss.
2. Feel the emotions that come to you. Let them flow, i.e.
do not stop them or judge them or analyze them, etc.
3. Write about all the similar losses you know about, whether
they be yours or someone else's.
4. Feel the feelings that are there.
Now,
5. Write about what will happen to you because of your loss:
--What will happen today?
--Tomorrow?
--Further into the future?
6. Feel what it all feels like.
How do you wish to feel in the future?
7. Write that down.
8. Feel it.
9. How could you create the future containing those feelings?
10. Take the first step.
You may need follow-up counseling, but this will help you over
the worst of it.
LOVE
too much?
Sometimes people have beliefs about themselves, that cause them
to miss out on self-love. A healthy amount of self-love is essential
for the flow of love, both towards us, and out from us.
If you feel a welling-up of love, and you believe there's no-one
who could receive it,
1. Imagine yourself in a circle of flowing energy.
2. You flow love out and around the circle and simultaneously
feel the flow of love coming in to you.
Do this at least twice a day.
NOT GOOD ENOUGH
This can be a devastating feeling that prevents you from doing
anything in life. There are causes, which need professional help
to resolve.
As a first aid,
Ask yourself,
1. Who has set the standard of what is good, that I am measuring
myself against? Using pen and paper, answer this question
as fully as you can, from all past and present experience.
Realize that good and bad are as you see good and bad.
2. Are you trying to mould yourself according to someone else's
standard of acceptability?
3. When was the earliest time you did that?
We will handle the feeling, for the feeling is yours, the
judgment may not be.
Steps:
1. Create all the feelings that go with not good enough.
2. Create them as intensely as you can.
3. Put all the feelings that you can find that go with "not
good enough" into a container labeled with the words "not
good enough."
4. Change them into bright, sparkling white light. This light
now represents "being as good as you choose." Pour this
light into you, and feel the difference!
PROBLEM
You are, or someone else is, in the middle of such a big problem
that nothing else seems to exist. It is so big that it is all
that they can see--and they see it, of course, from the inside.
Ask
1. What is the problem (or situation, or condition)? so
that you have a name for it--for example, "the problem with
my boyfriend."
Now ask
2. What problem (situation or condition) would be worse than
.................. e.g. "the problem with my boyfriend."
They may say that nothing could be worse. Ask them to
3. Imagine anything at all that could be worse.
4. Get an answer.
5. Acknowledge and accept the answer.
Ask again
6. What problem (situation or condition) would be worse than
..................(the original one).
7. Repeat this question, getting different answers.
Do this until the original very large problem is now much smaller.
Now, it can be handled.
If you feel smaller than a pebble, it becomes a mountain. It is
much easier to handle a pebble than a mountain.
Additional Step.
You could ask for solutions to be created for each of the problems
that are worse than the one being experienced.
PROBLEM
with no solution
You have tried and cannot find a solution to the problem.
Steps
1. Imagine that everything in the world has stopped.
2. Imagine that you are floating above it all, and see the whole
situation as though it were a Television soap opera.
3. Visualize all that is making things difficult for you--seeing
yourself as a character in the drama.
4. Create as many more difficulties for the "you" character
as you can. Let them be unsolved, and the character being completely
overwhelmed.
Now,
5. Go back to the point where you stopped everything. Create
the difficulties again, and let them belong to some other character--not
"you."
6. Invent solutions for these difficulties, telling the suffering
character what he or she should do. See them following your instructions,
and observe the difficulties being overcome.
7. Become the "you" character once more, and realize
that you have just been a solver of difficulties.
8. Come back to earth from your viewing place, bringing with you
the ability to change things and to solve problems and to resolve
difficulties.
PSYCHIC ATTACK
It appears that you are being sabotaged and that your experiences
are being created by a malevolent source.
This can be true. The way to handle it is not:
1. To resist it or get angry about it.
2. To fight it or to defend self.
3. To hide from it or escape it.
These actions encourage it to affect you.
Step aside and allow the energy from that other to go past you.
Allow it to be their energy. If you do nothing at
all but realise that there is some energy there, to accept or
reject, it will not affect you.
If it does still affect you there is something else that is happening
here.
It means that you already have within you some of what you are
receiving from the other. This allows it to reach you. You attract
it!
These things within you could be beliefs which allow it to be
as it is [such as those of deserving it] or more often, YOU have
caused another to experience what you are now experiencing.
Steps:
1. Feel the feelings that you are receiving.
2. Ask yourself “When have I caused another to feel exactly
as I now feel?”
3. Feel the feelings that you caused.
4. Get as many other times as you can when you caused others to
feel those feelings.
5. Feel the feelings that you caused. Feel them as intensely as
you can.
6. Know you are responsible for causing them. [owning them is
the only way to control them]
7. Let them go! Another way of saying this is forgive yourself.
8. As you do the above, know that you will change, i.e., you won't
create those feelings for others any more.
This should remove that which allows you to receive the Psychic
attack. If not you have missed something so do it all again as
thoroughly as you can.
REGRETTED
ACTIONS
1. Look at what you have done. Really acknowledge it to yourself.
Do not make excuses or justifications--these only make you
feel worse.
2. How do you judge yourself for behaving in this way? How
do you regard or judge anyone else who has done the same thing?
3. Forgive all others that you have judged. When you have
done that, you will be able to forgive yourself.
4. Decide to change.
REVENGE
Revenge is an attempt to show how displeased or angry you are
because of something that another has done. You consider that
they have harmed you. You do not know how to express your anger
nor how to 'make right' the hurt you feel.
If you consider that you will feel better once the other person
shares your anger and hurt and therefore plan to cause them to
share it by doing something that angers and hurts them you are
then creating two lots of anger and hurt.
You will each have two lots of it then. Because ALL of the anger
and hurt that you give and receive is stored in
your conscious and/or subconscious memory. It may also be stored
by the other person in their memory.
Do your really enjoy anger and hurt so much as to create it and
to store it in your reality? If you did you would welcome that
which you have received. As you say you don't welcome it then
do not create more. You will be affected by what you create.
Handle your anger as explained elsewhere in this book and handle
your hurt as explained in "Unwanted Emotions."
SELF PITY
If you are lost in self-pity,
Ask yourself
1. Whose attention do I want?
Then ask,
2. When?
Ask
3. Who am I trying to punish?
Then ask,
4. When?
Just let answers come. It may surprise you.
Now, ask yourself
5. Do I enjoy giving attention to someone else who is feeling
sorry for themselves.
If your answer is "No,"
6. Decide what kind of person you do prefer to be with, and
give your attention to.
If you are trying to punish someone,
7. Look and see whether they are really being punished
by your self-pity. Who is it that is feeling bad?
When these things have been resolved,
8. Find out who you were angry with before you felt sorry for
yourself.
9. Transform the feeling of self-pity into the anger that you
did not acknowledge, and feel it.
If you don't want this anger,
10. Release it as in "UNWANTED EMOTION."
SHAME
When you have not been allowed to feel real sorrow, or have not
allowed yourself to feel real sorrow, the resulting sham of
an emotion is shame.
Shame and guilt are not normal human emotions. Shame has no source
within you--it is something that has been dumped on you. Do not
confuse shame with the powerful energy of remorse.
The only first aid of which I am aware is to realize that shame
is something that has been caused by another, or others. It can
be ended.
See a practitioner for a course in ending shame.
SICK
loved one
If the sickness of another causes you worry and fear you can become
weak and ineffective. No-one is helped in this way.
What people create is what exists. If you are happy and I am happy
we have two lots of happiness. That seems OK. If I am unhappy
and you become unhappy then we have two lots of unhappiness. That
does not seem so good. It will not create happiness for anyone.
If someone is sick, and you put your attention on the sickness,
there are two lots of sickness. So the first thing to do
is take your attention off how sick they are, and put all your
attention on future health.
If there is something constructive you can do, then do it.
Sympathy is sharing sadness. It makes more sadness.
Understanding what is happening for the other and quietly being
supportive with calm thoughts gives strength and aids healing.
1. Focus on the person and imagine you are flowing white light
into their body. Imagine it flowing especially into areas that
need healing.
If you can be with the person,
2. Put your hand on them gently, and flow the white light through
your hand to them.
Do not feel any feeling that you do not wish to create for them
whilst doing this. Positive thoughts of peace and joy and love
can help them to heal.
STATE OF THE
WORLD
There is some danger, sitting in front of the TELEVISION for any
length of time. You get mainly the unpleasant aspects of life
presented as "news", as certain current affairs programs,
in police shows, and the like. As you sit watching this unpleasant
material, you may have sympathy, anger and other emotions stimulated.
You may also blame people for some of what you see.
This can make you very unhappy, frustrated, angry and feel you
are powerless.
Realize that although you are big enough, powerful enough to control
your TELEVISION set, you do not have the power to make
the whole world right for those suffering on your TELEVISION.
Now, realize that you are part of it all. You are a part of the
ALL, and you are connected to every part that comes to your
attention. Because you are connected, you can help.
You can change all that is wrong with the world as it appears
to you in your consciousness.
It is the aggregate of the (greed, for example) of all of us that
creates all the greed that is in the world. So as we reduce our
own conscious and subconscious level of greed, that is not just
one less greedy person, it is less greed in the entire world.
(The power and importance of this simple principle is amazing.)
1. Write down everything you can find that is wrong with the
world, and the beliefs that might have caused each wrong thing.
2. Preface each belief with "I."
3. Write the positive belief alongside.
You will have a list like:
- + I am greedy I am generous I am cruel I am kind I am the only one who is right etc.
4. Realize that you are programmed with both these opposites,
and that your negative side has been hidden.
This will already produce some relief.
You can clear these negative beliefs completely if you wish. Firstly
relax and go deep within.
Close your eyes when allowing the subconscious to present you
with its material.
5. Go to the earliest time you formed the belief.............
(I am cruel). With the thought of being there your subconscious
IS there you do not have to DO anything
6. Create the feelings that go with that belief. Create them
intensely. Create them as intensely as you can, and bring them
to a peak of intensity. When you get them to a peak, they will
flow.
7. Put them into a container, and see the words e.g. (I am
cruel) going into the container.
8. When all the feelings and the words of the belief are in the
container, put the lid on, and put it out of your universe.
9. Create the positive belief for yourself, and create the feelings
that go with that belief. As you do so, see yourself writing that
belief.
10. Repeat the process for each negative belief you have found.
When you have replaced each with its positive equivalent, conclude
the exercise with "the 33 second technique".
The 33 Second Technique.
1. Feel the good feelings, and visualize yourself with the positive beliefs creating your new reality and the improved world situation.
2. Desire this. Expect it. Imagine it.
3. Desire, expect, and imagine it more.
3. Build desire, expectation and imagination to a peak. (This will take thirty three seconds)
4. Let the picture go!
SUCCESS STORIES
I wanted to commend Mark Jones on his new Belief Changing techniques
as they have helped me tremendously and I know they will help
others. I had difficulty with certain aspects of my work, mainly
having the courage to meet producers and develop people pitch
story ideas. Mark helped me spot the beliefs that kept me from
doing my best in these meetings and helped me form new beliefs
that made my job not only easier, but actually enjoyable.
Susan Meyers
I learnt that I am 100% accountable for my life experiences. I
feel peaceful within myself and find myself giving and receiving
love freely. As I have changed so has the world around me.
Mitsuko
I wrote a goal back in November '94 and that goal was to release
my fears of limitations!
This goal has now been achieved!!
I feel an empowerment!!
knowing that I create my own reality
knowing that I can change within, and
also with, others.
I feel a great sense of inner peace and love.
I feel much more confidence and inner worth.
Thank you Muriel.
Best course I have done in this lifetime!!
My love and light to you
Anna
My success story----Rosalind
1. I got here in the first place.
2. I learned a lot about how I use energy--that I'm handling the
energy which determines the way I am.
3. I'm in control--I now realise this.
4. People love me so much more now, and I can love and accept
them and understand them much better.
5. I'm expressing my feelings and planning things with other people.
(e.g. Hallett cove singing group.)
6. I feel of value.
Testimonial/Thankyou
Dear Muriel,
Since Ros has been doing the Belief changing course our relationship
has blossomed and after a few hick-ups we are back to honeymoon
love in all senses.
She has not asked me to write this, but I feel you are owed a
very big thankyou for being there and sharing all your knowledge
and skill. You're wonderful--she (Ros) is wonderful.
I love you both.
Terry Gallasch
I've never found anything that has given me total satisfaction;
to create such appetite for more without emptiness. I can't learn
and gain enough. I am content and so happy with what I have encountered
and experience.
Searching is consuming and negativity exhausting without sufficient
satisfaction.
My eyes are open now and I trust what I am doing for the first
time in my life. I am also learning who I really am and what and
who I really always wanted to become, free of my inner turmoil.
I have begun the path to my own success and there is nothing nothing
sweeter.
Samantha
Testimonial Following A 75 Minute Belief Changing Demonstration
I was feeling untrustworthy.
I was feeling unsure of myself in the relationship. I was feeling
unloved; I was feeling his criticism and feeling unsure of myself
and responding to his criticism with fear. I was feeling separate
from him and feeling he did not acknowledge me. I had a feeling
I would lose him to someone else because of my unworthiness.
After I did the belief changing session I felt completely different.
I felt at ease in the relationship. I felt love and could respond
with love. I was no longer frightened of him and could gently
chastise him if he was not being fair. He responded with more
love and no longer threatened me. I felt he was not so critical.
Because I was more trusting, loving and accepting he responded
with acceptance, trust and love. I am no longer fearful of losing
him. I feel more powerful.
I realise I must be the right person and not just want the right
person and live in fear.
Our relationship has turned around quite dramatically.
I feel at peace with myself and do not feel jealous.
Belief Changing Testimonial After 3 Sessions And A Mini Course
Many thanks to Muriel for showing me the process of belief changing.
With her help and guidance I have made some very dramatic changes
to my life.
Although I have used many other processes on my pathway never
have I come across a process where the results manifest so quickly.
In several cases I have changed limiting beliefs and the results
manifested within minutes others came within days I changed a
belief in being dangerous and angry to one of being peaceful and
within a few moments I was faced with a confrontational situation
which I would ordinarily have become very irate, I defused the
situation without any suppression of anger or any ill feelings
on my part, something that was ordinarily impossible for me.
Since that time I have not been in one confrontational situation.
This is just one example of the changes that have occurred in
my life due to belief changing.
It has opened up my ability to feel and to give unconditional
love even to those that behave in a way that is destructive as
I now know that I am responsible for what I have created in my
life and that I am not a helpless victim of life. Even though
I had previously known this as a concept up until now it had never
been demonstrated in my life. I also feel that I have a
genuine gift to give the planet and that I hold the tools to make
a difference to the world. and forgive those that are destructive
knowing that they are only acting out what is in their subconscious.
The difference it has made to my self confidence is so dramatic
that I can not describe it.
Again my heartfelt thanks to Muriel.
Adrian van der Linde 26 October 1994
Taken from a letter Dec. 93
I worked quite persistently with accepting myself, changing beliefs
about myself as I saw them in Bill and the children.
Miracles have occurred with Bill and Lindy; Bill especially. He
is softening and relaxing and slowly changing his point of view
on many things where he was exhibiting quite a hard, judgmental
stance, and he is being quite wonderful to me--more loving than
ever I expected anyone to be towards me in this lifetime- it's
the realization of a life long dream. Lindy has settled--she's
very calm well organized and self assured and becoming increasingly
pleased with her self image. Sometimes she is almost serene.
I know now that I love them very much and will never leave them
until I die. I love Jim too. That is love and loyalty now.
Thankyou for the magic you have brought to me.
Cheryl is very happy and has worked on her relationship with her
husband which has been quite difficult for years (she's left him
twice)--he's got a job at last and looks years younger and much
more alive than I ever remember.
It is like emerging out of a lifetime fog and being able to see
for the first time.
I love you.
JH 29/11/1993
Today I sat and waited for someone and as I sat my attention was
drawn to the fact that the roofing material had been cut too short.
As I looked at it I realized that there were many other instances
around the house of things being too short. The word "short"
suddenly appeared as something more than a word and its associations
seemed more real than the definition. I let it associate and saw
it was a part of life. It was creating life. I looked up the definition
in the dictionary and as I did so more and more associations came
into view. Since I first sat down I was feeling energy flowing
that had been blocked. I then looked at beliefs of shortness and
having begun changing them the world has changed yet again. Maybe
she was late in order that I gain this change. Yesterday I handled
anxiety. There may be more to handle but I opened and cleared
a whole area of life and have less feeling of anxiety present.
July, '94
I had wanted a physical relationship, a tender loving one with
someone spiritual. He arrived tender sensual spiritual and wanting
me dreaming of me. I had been taking back my power as in a Lazaris
tape and had taken back the power I had lost in most sexual encounters.
I had been reading "Demian" by Hesse and had admired
the strength of the woman in the story who had handled the situation
elegantly rather than obeying desires first. I talked with him
found his beauty and his honesty and his lust and his attraction
and I was honest about how I felt about relationships from a level
of power that I had never had before. I could have easily and
with delight partaken of his massages and sensuality and sexuality
and I would have satisfied his incredible need. But he also wanted
to find a wife and have children and I want my spiritual growth.
I saw physical pleasure as it is without seeing any other benefit
and it did not feel right so I refused elegantly. Previously I
had handled similar situations by agreeing or avoiding the issue
or by running and by manipulation and everything else but straight
honesty. To refuse what it was I had actually created by my fantasy
in all its perfection for my ethics gave me my power. I had created
magically and I had re-created magically.
After The Anger Releasing Work Shop August 94
My life has changed a lot since doing the releasing anger workshop.
I now see anger just as that, and so it does not have the same
negative affect on me as it used to have. When I am around people
who are angry and people are angry at each other I don't get sucked
into the situation and possibly making it worse. And if the anger
is aimed at me I don't go to affect of it as I once would but
handle it effectively with seemingly little effort rather than
add to the situation. As a result my relationship with my children
and others have improved. I am much more spontaneous and feel
much freer and happier. I can just be do and have more.
Since the session on unblocking flows I have realised that I
am now here, in Australia.
At the age of 7I came to Australia with my parents or at least
part of me did. Since I have regained that part of my attention
that was still stuck over there, everything around me has become
clearer and brighter and life has become an adventure because
everything is so new. Life has been more fun and I have regained
my lost abilities of focus and reason. I am freer to start change
and stop anything in my life. I find that I have the intelligence
that I thought I wanted and it is as though life is starting anew.
I feel much better.
One Week After A First Session On The 10 August 1994
I am positive. I am happier. I am Free. I am funnier.
Neville said I was more positive and not so moody. People kept
looking at me as though I shone with a light around me. Neville
said I even looked different--no pain on my face.
I feel different from everyone. I feel like they are missing out
on something. They need to get rid of some of their limiting beliefs.
I look forward to studying and making myself achieve the ultimate
goal of becoming at peace and helping others.
Sandy
Before A Second Session August 1994
I have changed toward my children. I have more patience. I said
to my daughter "You are beautiful; you are you." I have
more love and listening for my son. I do not react with my husband
when we talk. I feel better about myself.
Later. My son has improved because I have improved. I made a decision.
I decided to leave Nick the other man in my life.
L
13 Sept 1994 After 3 Sessions
I am much happier, so much less "poor me", everything
looks brighter, I feel much more in control.
People are coming to me, people remark on how healthy and happy
I look.
I'm more organised, more up-to-date with chores--the boring stuff.
I get things done--quickly rather than eventually. I want to enjoy--everything.
I'm interested in me, I'm physically healthier than for at least
the last five years.
I seem to be smarter, I'm sensitive to things that I wasn't before.
My priorities and values are different, I really like things more.
I am able to discard junk (possessions) brutally now.
I am looking forward to how good things are going to be.
I don't look down at anyone now.
I'm achieving 10 times as much as before.
T.
Transformation Course, 10 Dec., '94
PS: Going solo was incredibly easy for me. It was very quick
to do. Even though I had imagined that it would be difficult and
clumsy to do. Locating the earliest time was quick and easy to
do. Getting rid of the negative emotion was easy and very fast.
Changing to the positive belief was again very quick and always
put a smile on my face. I just automatically got a smile on my
face as I was going through it. I did not expect it to be so easy.
I was amazed surprised at how the course was organised on the
right gradient so that everything went naturally and easy. There
was no struggle. Most definitely I have created magic. I would
say that my results were magical. By doing the course it'll make
your life much happier. "Do the course and your life will
be much happier." It makes you become more your yourself.
Tim B: What can I say?--it damn well worked beautifully.
I now have the gift of a most powerful tool which I can use to
pursue my spiritual and personal growth. As an added benefit it
makes me feel fantastic at the same time. An amazing experience
for me was observing my higher self conducting the session on
'me' and witnessing the emotions. It was amazing to see for example,
tears form and subside as the higher self conducted the session.
It was a strange sensation to be aware of this and at the same
time co-operating with "them" by opening my eyes to
read the beliefs that my higher self was working on. Amazing.
Wonderful.
I really expected only half of the benefit of a one on one session
and was delighted to find that I received the full benefit--even
on my first solo journey.
Sam: I just feel great. I feel so normal. I did a good
job. It was amazing. I went back to two places I had never seen
before. I had lost one arm. In the other, I was around people
wearing white robes. There was a whole group of us women, and
I was a prostitute. I thought it was amazing (so did the people
who heard this by the way--Tim). I found losing the feeling energy,
getting rid of it I didn't feel it go until I ripped the page,
it was like flicking a switch. I feel that I have achieved miracles
(little ones but too many to count). I really feel that I am now
a belief changer. I achieved the purpose of the course. The course
..... mmm I'd like to tell you how much it's benefited me. I am
more myself now the person I wanted to be. Personal, life long
agonies have just gone--they were the major ones to me.
Robyne: My first attempt at solo belief changing was easier
than I thought. I was sitting right in my "stuff" feeling
a multitude of emotions and not totally convinced that I had enough
of myself available to do the work and very much wanting someone
else to do it for me! As soon as I lay down to work I was right
there, right back in the past that had been restimulated. I could
see my bedroom as a child with my things around me and I was deep
in "grief". I persisted and was surprised at how much
my mind had stored of the technique and the patter. I could recall
every word as clear as day. At times my attention wandered so
I included the thoughts that were coming in into the emotional
energy I was putting into the urn and burned them. If pictures
appeared and persisted I tore them into pieces as I tore up the
page and burned them as well. I had many beliefs for this session
and I was very aware of the body changes I experienced as I worked
through and changed my beliefs. I was also delighted to feel the
emotions lift and dissolve away. I must say that I feel much lighter
and centred, much calmer. Even though I still kind of like the
idea of someone taking me through the process it's quite a relief
to know that I have these skills on tap, any time I need to use
them. I have achieved the goals of the course. I'm now a belief
changer!!!!
Success Story
On the first day of the Belief Changing Course I found I handled
a basic belief that has bugged me for seventy years.
My space opened up so much the house seemed too small to hold
me, my protective armours exploded in all directions freeing me
to freely love in all directions without any inhibitions whereas
before every show of affinity was a demonstration to myself that
there was no real love, but only degrees of liking.
Through Belief Changing I have had many positive changes in my
life.
1 - I had been practising some blues songs with a friend of mine
in order to attain some work as a performing duo at a local restaurant.
the restaurant had had my phone number for several weeks but was
not aware that we had been practicing. A doubt entered my head...'What
if we practiced for nothing? If they didn't want us?'
I caught that belief, went in to my room of beliefs, and symbolically
changed it. Within two days I received a call from the restaurant.
it was Thursday, and they wanted us to play on Saturday night.
We did and our music was well received. We got four more weeks
work with them as a result.
2 - I started a relationship with a man, and a fear arose. I had
been alone for so long that I believed loneliness had become my
best friend, and I could not let go of the sorrow. through discovering,
and changing the hidden beliefs connected with this, I relaxed
into the relationship, and allowed myself to be loved.
3 - Further into the above relationship, I began to have difficulties
with my lover. he could not feel comfortable with me in a relationship
because of my children. I found a belief that iI had that no man
could possibly love me and my children . Within a week or two
of changing this belief, and the surrounding ones, another man
entered my life. He fell in love with me and my children . And
I, without realising it, fell in love with him. We are now living
together - two months after we first met! Its incredible! This
is the first 'live-in' relationship I have had in seven years,
and I am extremely happy.
Without Belief Changing I would not have achieved any of these
things.
My sincerest thanks to Muriel for counselling me, and Mark for
devising the course.
Julia E
Belief Changing Gains
March/April 1992
By changing my work pattern I now feel that I have created time
to develop my talents and pleasures. Also I have the confidence
to guide the progress of the company without providing all my
energies.
It is the extra 4 hours of TIME that I have for my self to do
so much with - rather than the 4 hours I don't have to work that
is important. There is the feeling of coming alive.
My staff have faith in me and all is well.
John E
Kay T
. . . . The belief Changing weekend has certainly enhanced my
ability to extend myself and to grow in tune with my aspirations.
I could list the various beliefs I have changed, and whether or
not I perceive their successful reflection, as I have kept a record
of these. In addition I have managed to attain these:
- an extension in a relief position at
work (which I really enjoy - it is quite analytical), which includes
a "work car" as a side benefit.
- a renewal of interest and a seemingly
enhanced ability in playing the guitar.
- an affordable old style house, which
we can renovate to our own taste, in a location which is 'just
right' for our family.
- more motivation to perceive things from
others perspective.
- an appreciation of the beauty of myself
and others.
I have a solid sense of confidence in competence, and this has
helped me to grow in many facets of my life.
I was having a little difficulty with the 33
second technique for a while, as when I tried to picture myself,
all I could see was me with white light emanating from me. Although
it was ok - it felt right - I also heard myself saying, "you
are visualising death". Once I tackled a limiting belief
regarding death I came to think that it was the death of the subconscious
I was visualising. I rarely visualise myself like this now, as
I believe I do emanate white light in everyday life.
I am excited about the changes. I think I need to work more on
meditation - to be alone being a part of everything else. I have
purchased a book to address this need.
I hope you are having a wonderful life - I am sure that you are.
I do think of you often. Thankyou for the photo of the graduation.
your gentle strength is evident even in the photo, and your strength
has helped me to grow stronger.
Keep up the wonderful work.
Love.
Belief Changing Works!
I was asked half a dozen questions last month, and I had the answers
sitting right there waiting to be given, it seems.
Since that time I have had so many postulates, some tiny but some
not so small, appear for me in the physical universe, that I quickly
decided that I had better take care of about what I postulate!
I am experiencing a taste of what it's like to . . . actually
operate!
Ray
Recently I said to a vendor of a property that I would purchase
it, but then a day later saw a better property and decided to
buy the better property instead. This meant that I had to tell
the first vendor that I was not going to proceed with the purchase
- as is, of course, my right under law. I was able to do this
fairly easily but at one time I would probably have stuck with
the first property rather than confront the problem of backing
out.
Last weekend I found my daughter and her man, having had some
trouble in the city, wished to move to the country and live in
my house there. This would have created various difficulties and
I told them so quietly and that the answer was no, and they accepted
this. St one time I may well have let them stay, rather than face
telling them they could not.
On both of these occasions I had no doubt that my handling of
the two situations was made possible or at least easier, on account
of having been working on belief changing.
In September '92, a friend, introduced me to Muriel Chen. She
showed me how to find and change my beliefs from limiting negative
ones to positive ones.
What she showed me felt great at the time, but what I have since
come to realise is that in the space of about 5 minutes - she
showed me how to change my life.
Now when I feel myself reacting to something or someone, I look
for the limiting negative beliefs and change it to a positive.
The positive part of belief changing has given me the courage
to do things I would never have dreamed of doing before.
I have been able to change my predisposition to physical problems
eg. headache, sore throat, by finding the limiting belief. I have
also been able to help others change the spiritual cause of physical
problems eg. cold, fever, sore knee by guiding them to look at
their limiting beliefs that are the cause of such problems.
After spending time with you last Friday, somewhat to my advantage,
I now hold the opinion that Post Modern Witches call their dens
studios, ride pencils instead of broom sticks. and need the company
of black cats at least their studios ... thankyou Magic carpets
and all.
SUICIDAL
Several extreme feelings can bring one to contemplate suicide.
Is it the feeling of hopelessness, feeling it's all bad, you can't
see the way out? Is it the feeling of revenge which you must express
by making them sorry for what they have done, or not done, to
you? Is it a feeling of unforgivable guilt that will not release?
Is it a problem or sense of loss too great to bear?
Your life is your own, and you are free to live it or to not live
it.
Before you decide to live or not to live, you will need to decide
what comes next, either in life or in death. Will the feelings
that you feel continue after death? Some research indicates that
they are continued, or replayed in some way, if they are not resolved
now.
It would be safer to realize what is causing you to feel this
way.
Programming that you cannot see is creating a lens through which
you only see what it allows you to see.
Programming is also attracting, like a magnet, into your field
of experience, situations, people and feelings that are unwanted.
Programming determines your opinion of others and your opinion
of yourself.
THIS PROGRAMMING CAN BE CHANGED. IT CAN BE REMOVED. YOU CAN CHANGE
WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT INTO WHAT YOU DO WANT.
1. Begin listing all that you are blaming others for.
2. Then, write what you are blaming the world for.
3. Then what you are blaming yourself for.
4. When you have done all this listing, as fully as you can, write
"I" in front of each item.
You have written down an accurate indication of your inner
programming that is causing whatever you are feeling--and all
your present experience.
That list does not describe the "you" that you wish
to be, does it?
A far more desirable "you" is described by writing
the opposite of the items on the list. Write them:
e.g. I am ugly . . . . . . . . I am beautiful
The item on the right is the you that you are without the negative
programming.
The negative programming can be changed, and as a direct result,
your life will change beyond belief.
See the section on "Belief Changing" at the end.
TIME
not enough of it
Your problem is NOT "not enough time". It cannot be,
because all the time you experience is the time that you create.
You create time by causing or allowing things to change. If nothing
and I mean nothing ever changed for you, you would have
no concept of time at all. It would all be the same. Nothing would
ever happen.
It is your ability to decide upon the rate at which change
occurs in relation to yourself that determines whether or not
you have enough time.
When you feel that you do not have enough time, have a look at
what is happening.
Steps.:
1. Are you trying to stop something from changing?
2. Are you trying to force something to change?
3. Are you allowing someone or something other than you to decide
what you do and when you do it?
When you have decided which of these it is
4. Make a decision to take control of just one part
of your life that has been controlling you.
5. Do it, and allow the changes that you choose.
Hidden limiting beliefs may be affecting your time.
Beliefs which affect change affect your ability to have time,
particularly those that enforce or inhibit change.
So, you see, hours don't really measure time. They are
a convenience (sometimes!) for coordinating events, just as latitude
and longitude co-ordinate and compare your position on the earth.
TROUBLE
(In trouble)
Some people are always "getting into trouble".
Ask yourself,
1. What is the worst thing that can happen to me?
Then ask yourself,
2. How will I handle that?
3. Decide whether it is best to run or to fight. Which has more
chance of success in the immediate future?
OR If the source of your trouble is approachable
1. Be completely honest, and communicate the whole truth. It
is hard for someone else to argue with the truth, no matter what
it is.
Remember, this is FIRST aid, and there are other things that can
be done.
UNLOVED
1. Find something beautiful, particularly something that is alive--a
plant or an animal.
2. Focus all your attention on what you have chosen as beautiful,
and really feel the beauty.
When you have felt it as intensely as you can,
3. Imagine that the object is bathed in white, sparkling energy.
4. Imagine that energy flowing to you.
5. Imagine you can create white, sparkling energy, and flow it
towards the beautiful thing you are focused on.
This energy exchange which you can feel IS LOVE. You can
create it at will, any time you wish.
All the love you feel is the very love that you have created.
It is nice to flow it to others and have it flowed to you but
you must be able to create it first.
UNSURE
of the right answer or the right thing to do
1. Form a question that can be answered with a YES or a NO.
2. Relax as completely as you can.
3. Imagine your higher self, or Someone more than you, and ask
the question of them. The answer will be there immediately.
4. Accept the answer you get. If you try to think instead
of listen to the answer you may not "hear" it.
It would be like asking someone a question and then continuing
to talk as they answered it.
The answer you get will be the right answer for you at the moment
of asking.
4. When you are quite practiced with the yes and no answers,
you can try for others.
Remember that common usage of language can be imprecise. Make
sure you form your question in such a way that it says what you
mean, and it can be precisely answered.
UNHAPPY
Happiness is not necessarily dependent upon outside happenings.
You can make it dependent upon outside happenings if you choose
to do so. Some people choose to do so without being aware that
they are making that choice.
1. Think of something that you choose to like or look
at something that you could choose to like. It may be a colour,
a shape, an object, an emptiness or a fullness of something; anything
that pleases you.
2. Now, with your attention on what you have chosen, feel what
it would feel like to be happy.
When you are focusing on the things that you do not want or when
you are focusing on what you do not have you find it difficult
to create the feeling of happiness.
So your unhappiness can be changed by changing that upon which
you are focusing and by creating the feeling that you know is
happiness.
Your problem is not unhappiness it is the problem of making your
life as you choose it to be.
You life can be as you consciously choose when you remove the
limiting beliefs which are affecting your choices from the subconscious.
UNWANTED EMOTION
1. Imagine that you are surrounded by containers.
2. Look at the unwanted emotion--like fear, hate, anger, grief,
or even something that you are feeling that hasn't a name.
3. Let yourself feel it.
4. Create it, and feel it intensely.
5. Feel it as intensely as you possibly can.
As it reaches maximum intensity it will want to go somewhere.
6. Put it in a container.
7. Look for more of that same unwanted emotion that may still
be there, and follow the same process of feeling it intensely
and then putting it into a container.
8. As you create the feeling, words, ideas and images may come.
Put these into the container too.
9. When it is all put into containers, and you cannot find any
more, imagine that you are much bigger than your body. Imagine
that you are your own Higher Self, and magically turn all the
contents of the containers into bright, joyously sparkling white
light. See it sparkle!
10. Pour all that sparkling white light into yourself. Let
the brightness and joy fill every cell of your body. If you
are taking someone else through this process, you will feel the
light.
Do not hurry. Take all the time you like. Enjoy the whole experience
to the full.
UPSET
with another person
1. Write down everything that is wrong about that person. Write
down what they are being that is wrong, what they are doing that
is wrong, and what they are having that is wrong.
2. Next, write down why each thing is wrong. Imagine
telling them all this or even pretend they are with you and say
it aloud.
3. Now, write down what you think they would write and
say about you, if they were the ones doing the above exercise.
4. Write down how it feels for you to be right in relation to
all this wrongness.
5. Write down how it feels for the other person to be wrong.
6. Write down how it feels for you to be wrong in relation to
this person.
7. Write down how it feels for the other to be right in relation
to you.
Have you noticed that there is a difference in viewpoint of what
is right and what is wrong? An upset is caused by a difference
in viewpoint occurring, after you thought that there was
an agreement. Sometimes this upset occurs because the agreement
had never actually been there. This can occur when one person
tries to force their opinion on another. Sometimes, one or both
people might suddenly completely refuse to see that the other
is different, (and that it is OK to be different), and sometimes
it is the sudden realization of a difference which had not been
seen before.
Right and wrong are viewpoints. An upset occurs when there is
a sudden change in what one or both had previously seen
as similarity or difference.
"One of us must be right," you say. Of course! You are
both right. You have different points of view. We are always right
until we see for ourselves that something is more right for us.
SECTION 2
TECHNIQUES
The following techniques are given in the briefest form. There
is a course available to teach these techniques and there is a
book which outlines them for you in much greater detail
Contents
FINDING BELIEFS TO CHANGE
BELIEF CHANGING TECHNIQUE
To use with another
The 33 second technique
To use Solo
FINDING BELIEFS TO CHANGE
In some of the first aid sections, exercises to help find particular
beliefs were outlined. You may have reached this section and have
found no beliefs to practice with.
There are many ways of locating the hidden limiting negative beliefs.
Here is one way.
Whatever one blames another or others for is a hidden limiting
belief in oneself. If you are a parent you will find plenty in
what you blame your children for, especially when you are stressed
or frustrated. We pass them down from parent to child.
If you write them down and change them in you, you benefit all
generations. Write them as belonging to "I." Six to
eight are enough for your first session.
e.g.
I am naughty
I don't deserve
I must do as I am told
I am dumb
then work out the preferred belief by having it as near as possible
the opposite of the unwanted one (without using negatives).
e.g.
I am naughty I am good now
I don't deserve I deserve now
I must do as I'm told I decide what I do
I am dumb I am bright now
Now you have a list. You can have someone change them for you
or do it yourself.
BELIEF CHANGING TECHNIQUE
This technique is from Mark Jones' book Realizing Our Dreams.
I have put it into my words.
I will assume in giving the procedure that you are using this
technique on someone else and then tell you about doing it solo.
Prepare for the session
Have a list of beliefs that are to be changed with those that
they are to be changed to written opposite them.
Alcohol within 24 hours and drugs within one week make this technique
very difficult. It may not be possible to use it. If you need
to have a first aid session and you have taken drugs or alcohol
within these time periods you may need to repeat the session later.
Make sure you have drunk enough water.
Make sure that you will not be interrupted--put a do-not-disturb
sign on door, take phone off hook, etc.
The person doing the session makes sure the person having the
session is relaxed by using a guided meditation. Use the one following
(or one you are already familiar with):
Lie or sit in a position in which you can relax completely without
going to sleep.
"Let the body cells relax. They know how to relax. Let them
relax with the thought of doing so. Start with your feet. Let
them relax. Let go. Now let your ankles relax and as they relax,
relax the calves of your legs. As you let the relaxation flow
into your knees allow any suppressed anger or resentment flow
away from you. Let your knees relax. Let your thighs relax and
let your pelvic area relax. Let the organs there relax with the
thought of them doing so. Let your abdomen relax and let its organs
relax. Let you chest relax. As you let your lungs relax they will
breathe more evenly and deeply and as your heart relaxes it will
beat strongly and rhythmically. Now let your shoulders relax.
Let the relaxation flow down your arms and let your hands relax
and let each finger relax. Let the relaxation start again in the
shoulders and this time move down the spine till it is completely
relaxed. Feel the relaxation again in the shoulders and now let
it move upward and relax the neck-front and back. Let your head
relax. Feel each of the many muscles of your scalp relax. Let
your jaw relax, let you mouth relax top lip and bottom lip, and
now your cheeks and your nose forehead eyebrows and then your
eyes and eye lids. Let go and let it all relax. As I count from
5 to 1 allow your self to drift into a deeper state of relaxation;
a deeper state of consciousness. Five . . . . four . . . . three
. . . . . two . . . . . one(said slowly).
Imagine you are in a place where you can enter the earth, through
a cave and a tunnel or down a staircase in and old mansion or
into an opening in the trunk of an old tree or any other way that
you choose. Enter the earth and go deeper within, deeper, deeper.
Feel the safety as you go deeper within. You come out into a large
cavern where everything you have ever owned is stored and you
see it all covered in dust. On the other side of that cavern is
and old person with white hair. This is your helper. Go to your
helper and ask, "Which is the way to the room of beliefs?"
Your helper points down the passage and you see light coming from
under a door. You thank your helper before moving down to the
door. You see written on it "Room of Beliefs." You open
it and go inside. You are in a brilliantly lit room. There is
a table on one end of the table is a brass container with a flame
in it and there are pens pencils small cards and on the other
end a large book. You go over to the book and see written on it
in gold, "My Beliefs."
1. Open the book. You see written there ...............................
(here you read, clearly, the first of the beliefs to be changed)
(You now command the subconscious mind and it will obey instantly:)
2. Go to the earliest time you formed the belief ............................
(say the belief )
3. Create the feelings that go with the belief .............................
(say the belief allow enough time to do this) Feel them.
4. Create those feelings more. Feel them more.
5. Create them as intensely as you can.
6. When you have created them as intensely as you can put all
the feeling energy in the container. (allow sufficient time)
7. Write VOID across the page. (Make sure you both know
the meaning of the word 'void' before the session)
8. Tear it out. Scrunch it up and throw it into the container
and watch it all go up in smoke until it is all gone.
All gone. ( it helps to put a line through the negative belief
on the sheet of paper)
9. On the clean page that is now in front of you write ........................................
(here you read out the positive belief slowly--at writing speed)
10. Create the state of consciousness that goes with the belief
................................... (say the belief)
11. Feel all the feelings you choose to have that go with the
belief ...................................... (say the belief
and allow enough time for it to be done)
12. Pick up a small card and write on it ..........................
(say the belief at writing speed)
13. Keep creating those good feelings as you put the card in
your pocket.
14. Turn the page. It says ............................ (say
the next belief to be changed)
Continue changing the beliefs you have listed using steps 2 to
14 until they are all changed.
15. I am going to bring you back and you will open your eyes
on the count of five and not before.
One, coming back bringing with you all the feelings that go with
..................................... (read each of the new
beliefs)
Two, coming up coming back, three, four and five. Open you
eyes.
You may need to gently help the person orient by saying "Notice
the wall." "Notice the floor." "Feel the air
on your body" etc., giving as much time as they need
to do each of these. You will notice when they are fully with
you.
Do the 33 second technique
The 33 Second Technique
1. Feel the good feelings, and visualize yourself with the positive beliefs already creating your new reality
2. Desire this. Expect it. Imagine it.
3. Desire, expect, and imagine it more.
4. Build desire, expectation and imagination to a peak. (This will take thirty three seconds)
5. Let the picture go!
Do this at least once a day and you will find things changing.
SOLO BELIEF CHANGING
The above technique can be used solo but needs to be learned first
so that you do not have to think about or read the steps. You
can learn by practicing. Practice on a toy an animal or if you
have someone who is interested, on another person.
Once you are familiar with the technique you can do it for yourself
just as you do for the other person. You may tell yourself what
to do either aloud or silently. You will soon be able to open
your eyes to see the beliefs on the list without coming out of
the meditative state.
Alternatively you can tape the session for yourself and then go
through it with your finger on the pause button of the player
to give you time to do each step.
It would make it easier to begin with a session with a trained
person either before you begin or after you have learned the technique.
PRACTITIONERS
If you wish to obtain professional help using belief changing
techniques, contact Muriel Chen, c/o: ssolomon@soilandhealth.org;
or, because Muriel is often travelling and it can take time for
snailmail to catch up to her, and if you can wait several weeks
for an answer, write to Muriel Chen c/o Steve Solomon P.O. Box
541 Metaline Falls, Washington 99153